"As people change, our perceptions in other people change."
A palette of paint, with many colours all mixed together. A big mess that could not be undone but to be either admired or to be disgusted in. It's a relative concept, and depending on the person, their opinions follow.
It's amazing how powerful social influences can be. Shaping the character of people around us, what we are today are because of the many people we know in our lives, whether we hate them or love them. And because we constantly meet new people and adjust to their 'style', we are, in ourselves, constantly changing people. That's why I admire the people who don't need social groups. The people who don't really 'need' anyone in particular, and live their lives just knowing a lot of people, hearing from a lot of people and basically having their own way of life, whether it be good or bad. They're not the 'nerdy' guys, or the 'hardcore' guys. They're the people's people. They may not have a 'group' or a bunch of friends to hang around with or wateva crap people might call it. They are the number one people in the social hierachy.

carpe diem